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Reflections from Fifty Years of Practice

Essays and clinical reflections from Dr. Hartman, a psychoanalyst in Washington, DC, on psychoanalysis, psychotherapy, and the emotional lives of the people he has worked with.

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What Is Transference? Types, Triggers, and Therapy

Transference carries feelings from an old relationship into a new one. How it shows up in therapy, its types, and how it differs from countertransference.

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Relationship Problems That Recur: Why the Same Fight Keeps Coming Back

Why couples keep having the same fight, what the pursue-withdraw cycle and the anxious-avoidant trap are, and what changes a pattern that keeps returning.

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Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy: Why Frequency Matters

Psychoanalysis and psychoanalytic psychotherapy share one approach at different frequencies. What each involves, and why more sessions can deepen the work.

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Repetition Compulsion: Why Patterns Keep Repeating

Why people keep repeating the same painful patterns in relationships and work, what Freud called repetition compulsion, and how psychoanalytic therapy helps.

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Psychodynamic Therapy vs CBT: How to Choose

Two respected treatments aimed at two different targets. What each actually does in the room, which one fits which problem, and the questions worth asking a therapist before you book.

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Couples Therapy vs Marriage Counseling: What Actually Works

They are one treatment. How to match the method to your problem, check a therapist’s real training, and know when a joint session is the wrong first step.

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How to Deal With Depression: What Actually Helps

A practical guide to depression, what the symptoms feel like, what causes them, which treatments have evidence behind them, and the small daily changes that make every other treatment work better.

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What Is Anxiety? Symptoms, Types and Treatment

A complete guide to anxiety and anxiety disorders, symptoms, types, diagnosis and treatment options, including where a psychoanalytic understanding of anxiety fits in.

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